Listen!
GROCERIES when you think you see a dead man in the cereal aisle and then realize it must be someone else it's not true the dead come back so easily we mistake them for our own kind the lack of recognition does not insult them they remember how easy it was to assume life and death are separate things and anyway they are busy looking for something in all the choices we have laid out for ourselves so caught up in the search they barely notice us till later when they think oh wait that was him he must still be amongst the living